have 2 antix-base installs, but gmplayer doesnt display right

when run from terminal i get this error message

MPlayer 1.0rc2-4.3.1-DFSG-free (C) 2000-2007 MPlayer Team
CPU: Intel Celeron 2/Pentium III Coppermine,Geyserville (Family: 6, Model: 8, Stepping: 3)
CPUflags: MMX: 1 MMX2: 1 3DNow: 0 3DNow2: 0 SSE: 1 SSE2: 0
Compiled with runtime CPU detection.
mplayer: could not connect to socket
mplayer: No such file or directory
Failed to open LIRC support. You will not be able to use your remote control.

(<unknown>:2753): Gtk-WARNING **: Unable to locate theme engine in module_path:"murrine",

the remote is blacked out,but you can right click it to access its functions.

also have a debian lenny netinstall - this problem doesnt exists with gmplayer

disregard...just realised its just an app looking for a gtk display theme to follow